[thelist] ASP form to mail script and spam

[Flavia Tarzwell (FayeC)]

I am using ASPMail 4 on my site to send a form but it is extemely 
vulnerable to spam.
I am getting at least a few test exploits a day and I am worried that it 
will be used to spam other people.
My question is: Is there any safe, non-exploitable scripts out there 
(yes, I googled and a few said spam-proof but I want to know from other 
people's experiences and not just what their websites claim....)?
The hosting company discourages the use of CDONTS and ASP Mail, Form 
mail and PHP Mail are basically my main options....

Thanks for any advice,

FayeC