----- Original Message ----- From: Miriam <miriam at dynagirl.com> > My whole point has that there seems to be such a polarized debate here- > either Love & Hug & Patchouli one's enemies into submission, or Bomb The > Everlivin' Crap out of 'Em. The Either/Or approach doesn't work. We need > to find a workable middle ground. Preach it, sistah. Emily