[thechat] marital crisis update.

[.jeff]

kristy,

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> From: kristenannfrey at yahoo.com
>
> [...] I can stop worrying now (seriously!). [...] I
> wish my ex-husband could be so positive.   He worries
> me constantly.  Even though I am remarried, I still
> worry constantly about his mental health and
> happiness.
>
> I never heard of CoDA - Sounds like a good idea though.
> If they have a Western New York chapter I may recommend
> them to my ex.
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no offense, but STOP worrying about your ex.  oh, and coda is still a good
idea -- for you.  remember, the responsibility for the failure of a
relationship is nearly always a 50/50 split.  do your part so you can become
a better person for your current mate.

good luck,

.jeff

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