erika - i'm sorry it comes across that way to you, but theres nothing i can do to help how you're interpretting a conversation between me and jeff(god forbid if you heard how we talked to eachother on the phone. oh, hopefully i've not offended anyone practicing Atheism, Islam, Buddhism, Hinduism, or Taoism with the use of the term 'god') jeff and i tend to disagree with eachother all the time, and it can seem brutal at times to people who may be watching. theres always that thar' delete key!! weeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! Erika Meyer wrote: > This sort of language "if you can't be bothered..." etc comes across as > combative and accusatory... even abusive. It is not at all pleasant to > witness. Even less pleasant to be the brunt of, and as you know, I > speak from experience.