Name Game (was: Re: [thechat] Driving in America
T.Abbey
Abbey at abbeyink.com
Sat Mar 3 17:43:10 CST 2001
At 06:25 PM 3/3/01 -0500, you wrote:
>My friend Lauren was over for a visit last night. She was recently
>divorced. In the state of Virginia the ex-husband has to grant the ex-wife
>the right to revert back to her maiden name. Lauren's husband has declined
>her permission, so she's stuck with his name. Can't change it legally
>unless she remarries, no exceptions.
That is outrageous!
I once used someone else's name. When the time came to return to being me,
I took it. Now, people look at me askance when I have one name and my
husband has another, but, my name is the /only/ thing I'll take to the
grave. And, if it was good enough to put on my birth certificate, it's good
enough for a byline and it's good enough for a diploma and it's good enough
for a tombstone.
Some one needs to start petitioning the Virginia state legislature and let
them know women are not chattel to be owned by a man.
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