Martin said on 11/10/01 9:19 pm >Ron White wrote on 11/10/01 9:07 pm > >>Tara, you treated the critic's comments with more dignity than they >>warranted. >> >>Freda >> >>Why is that, Freda? His opinion doesn't matter?? Are you the kind of person >>that thinks another person is worthless because his/her opinion is different >>than yours? That statement certainly screams that... > >Ron, I didn't see that at all. The statement was that Jeremy's comments >undeserving of dignity, not Jeremy himself. I felt he blamed Erika for the situation she had been in; if he himself had had such experiences and been blamed in public on this list, I wonder if he would have reacted with such reasonableness and generosity as Erika and Tara did. I do try to treat people with respect, all people deserve that, it's just sometimes they say things that appears particularly callous. This post struck a chord with me because tomorrow is the fourth anniversary of the death of my most dearly loved friend, teacher and inspiration. That's all I'm going to say on this topic. Freda It's about you and me together, it's about changes and it's about time. -John Denver.