[thechat] I am going nuts

kristenannfrey at yahoo.com kristenannfrey at yahoo.com
Sat May 18 08:04:01 CDT 2002


> There is this stunning woman that I work with.
> We pass each other in the corridors, I get a whiff
> of her perfume and, man, her hair...All this is
> driving me nuts because she does even glance at
> me.

Have you done your homework?

1. Are you sure she is single
2. Do you have things in common (besides that you like her looks, smell
etc.)

And if you can find out (based on her previous mates)
3. Are you her type

#3 doesn't matter so much since men that were previously her type are no
longer with her if she is single.

If she meets 1 and 2, just start by saying hi with a smile everytime you
pass her in the hall.  This at least gets her to look at you.
Saying hi doesn't imply that your looking for a date - just that your a
polite guy.  Plus starting at that level can save embarrassment and help you
feel out the situation.

Kristy




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