[thechat] I am going nuts

[Shirley Kaiser, SKDesigns]

At 06:03 AM 5/18/2002, Kristy typed to Yousuf:


> > There is this stunning woman that I work with.
> > We pass each other in the corridors, I get a whiff
> > of her perfume and, man, her hair...All this is
> > driving me nuts because she does even glance at
> > me.
>
>Have you done your homework?
>
>1. Are you sure she is single
>2. Do you have things in common (besides that you like her looks, smell
>etc.)
>
>And if you can find out (based on her previous mates)
>3. Are you her type
>
>#3 doesn't matter so much since men that were previously her type are no
>longer with her if she is single.
>
>If she meets 1 and 2, just start by saying hi with a smile everytime you
>pass her in the hall.  This at least gets her to look at you.
>Saying hi doesn't imply that your looking for a date - just that your a
>polite guy.  Plus starting at that level can save embarrassment and help you
>feel out the situation.

Yousuf,

Kristy gave good advice about this, IMO, coming from a female perspective. :-)

And good luck!

Warmly,
Shirley

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